Friday, January 31, 2014
I need some input on this matter and will respect anyone's opinion. This summer I am going for my CDL this summer. My lease is up in May. I will ride the rode for two years with my husband as a team. We can double the money and I know I will always have a job. I am excited about this. I talked to my son and he said he will mis me and dad but he knows we have to do what we have to do. It want be so bad because we will come in every three weeks for a couple of days and head back out to keep the money rolling. His AAU coach and his wife want to get him and another parent want to get him from the team. They understand and is willing to help. The problem is I'm not speaking to one of my sisters anyway because she is so ignorant. She said we are wrong because they are not family and I should bring Dejuan home to Memphis. Dejuan does not want to go to Memphis. Dejuan is 6'4 wearing a 14 at the age of 14. He is happy at Gotha Middle. He doesn't matter what parent because they love him and vice versa. He is a star at Gotha basketball and Florida Force basketball keeps him on the internet. Me nor my husband don't believe he will get recognize out in Memphis. Half of the town is desserted. He will be in high school next year. Don't you think I should be looking at his future or satisfy the family which half of them don't have crap going for them anyway.
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Wow, what a decision to make. Personally, I don't know that I could be without my son for that long. But, I understand that things have to be done and you must do what you need to. Ultimately, you all are his parents & have to make the best decision for him. Regardless of what people may say, they are not in your shoes, nor are they his parents & does not have a say so. I say, do what's best for your household.
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I have not seen a hard decision made easily, sometimes all we have is hard choices in life, but when things are for the better and greater good I said go for it. And when it come to other people having steaks in the matter we have a Spanish saying "Nadie sabe lo que hay en la olla, solo la cuchara que la menea" Only the spoon know what's in the pot! something like that
ReplyDeleteWell, I say that only you know what is best for him. I am sure I could not be without any of my kids for over one week, if even that. The best thing to do and that I have always been taught, is to Pray about and let Our Heavenly Father give the answer by letting you feel what is right. Have you prayed about it? Have you given God time to answer? God Bless you, your husband, and your son. I hope it all comes to light for you very soon.
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